The Mixily Blog · Issue №86

Hosting, seriously (and a little less seriously).

Tips, guides, and comparisons to help you plan better events — from RSVP etiquette to choosing the right invitation platform.

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Mid-Year Check: Are You Building Community?

Mid-Year Check: Are You Building Community?

It’s July. You said you’d host more events this year. More dinners. More get-togethers. More intentional time with the people who matter. Building community — real community, not just a big once-a-year party — was the plan. So. How’s that going? I ask because I’ve made that same promise for years. And for years I […]

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Summer Picnic Party: Ideas, Food & Checklist
No. 02
Guides · Jul 13, 2026 · 15 min read

Summer Picnic Party: Ideas, Food & Checklist

A picnic party is one of the lowest-cost, highest-reward ways to host this summer. No venue rental, no catering bill, no cleanup beyond folding a blanket. Just food, friends, and open air. I’ve hosted dozens of outdoor gatherings, and the picnic format is consistently a guest favorite. There’s something about eating outside on the ground […]

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The Ultimate Backyard BBQ & Cookout Guide
No. 03
Guides · Jul 8, 2026 · 11 min read

The Ultimate Backyard BBQ & Cookout Guide

Planning a backyard BBQ is supposed to be fun. But somehow it always comes with a few surprise headaches: not enough food, no idea who’s coming, and a propane tank that runs dry right as the burgers hit the grill. I’ve hosted backyard BBQs for years — from a 10-person dinner in my apartment courtyard […]

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How to Use Mixily for Your Wedding (Free Invitations + RSVP Tracking)
No. 04
Guides · Jul 8, 2026 · 11 min read

How to Use Mixily for Your Wedding (Free Invitations + RSVP Tracking)

A complete step-by-step guide to using Mixily for your wedding — from creating your event page and importing your guest list to sending invitations, tracking RSVPs, and managing reminders. Includes an honest pricing breakdown and a true cost comparison against Paperless Post, Joy, Greenvelope, and Evite for a 100-guest wedding.

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Beach Party Ideas: Themes, Food & Games
No. 05
Guides · Jul 6, 2026 · 14 min read

Beach Party Ideas: Themes, Food & Games

Beach parties are the rare event that sells itself. Say “beach party Saturday” and people are in before you finish the sentence. But they’re also the events that unravel fastest. I’ve been to beach parties where nobody could find parking, the food turned into a sandy mess by noon, and the only shade was a […]

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Summer Party Invitation Wording: BBQ, Pool & Picnic
Guides · Jul 3, 2026

Summer Party Invitation Wording: BBQ, Pool & Picnic

Your summer party invitation does one job: get people to say yes. Too vague and guests ghost you. Too stiff and it feels like a corporate memo. The wording sets expectations — what to wear, what to bring, how much fun they’ll have. I’ve thrown a lot of summer parties. Backyard BBQs with 30 people, […]

How to Word a Digital Wedding Invitation (With QR Codes, Website URLs, and Online RSVP)
Guides · Jul 2, 2026

How to Word a Digital Wedding Invitation (With QR Codes, Website URLs, and Online RSVP)

Every wording guide online is written for paper — but digital invitations have their own rules. This guide covers exactly how to phrase the save-the-date, main invitation, and RSVP prompt, with four complete template sets (formal, casual, modern, humorous) and clear guidance on URLs, QR codes, and fallbacks for older guests.

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4th of July Party Invitation Wording (50+ Examples)

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Paperless Post vs Withjoy vs Zola: The Wedding Invitation Comparison Nobody Paid For

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4th of July Party Planning Guide

Jun 29, 2026 · Guides · 9 min read
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Zola Doesn’t Have Digital Wedding Invitations — 5 That Do

Jun 27, 2026 · Guides · 9 min read
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Ice Cream Social Party Ideas

Jun 26, 2026 · Guides · 8 min read
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Paperless Post Alternatives for Weddings (Ranked by What’s Actually Free)

Jun 25, 2026 · Guides · 10 min read
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Backyard Movie Night: How to Host an Outdoor Film Party

Jun 24, 2026 · Guides · 8 min read
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The Real Cost of Paperless Post for Weddings (Do the Math Before You Design)

Jun 23, 2026 · Guides · 9 min read
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Mixily vs Partiful: Which Free Event Platform Wins in 2026?

Jun 22, 2026 · Comparisons · 8 min read
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Is It Rude to Send Digital Wedding Invitations? An Honest Answer

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Juneteenth Celebration Guide: How to Host & Honor the Day

Jun 19, 2026 · Guides · 8 min read
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Summer Solstice & Midsummer Party Ideas

Jun 17, 2026 · Guides · 8 min read
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How to Plan a Family Reunion

Jun 15, 2026 · Guides · 8 min read
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Pride Month Celebration Ideas: How to Host & Show Up

Jun 12, 2026 · Guides · 8 min read
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Mixily Feature Updates — Spring 2026: RSVP Deadlines, Smarter Reminders & More

Jun 11, 2026 · Updates · 4 min read
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Bachelor Party Planning Guide

Jun 10, 2026 · Guides · 8 min read
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Rehearsal Dinner Ideas, Etiquette & Planning

Jun 8, 2026 · Guides · 8 min read
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How to Host a Garden Party

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Father’s Day Celebration Ideas: Brunch, BBQ & Beyond

Jun 3, 2026 · Guides · 8 min read
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Summer Party Ideas: 30 Ways to Celebrate the Season

Jun 1, 2026 · Guides · 12 min read
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How to Plan a Summer Block Party Your Neighborhood Will Love

May 29, 2026 · Guides · 7 min read
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Adult Birthday Party Ideas: How to Host a Birthday People Love

May 27, 2026 · Guides · 9 min read
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50th Birthday Party Ideas Your Guest of Honor Will Love

May 25, 2026 · Guides · 7 min read
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Outdoor Party Planning: The Complete Guide to Hosting Outside

May 22, 2026 · Guides · 14 min read
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Pool Party Ideas: How to Host a Pool Party Everyone Talks About

May 20, 2026 · Guides · 13 min read
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Memorial Day BBQ Planning Guide

May 18, 2026 · Guides · 7 min read
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Kids Birthday Party Ideas by Age and Theme

May 15, 2026 · Guides · 6 min read
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Party Games for Adults: 30 Ideas That Actually Get People Talking

May 13, 2026 · Guides · 9 min read
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Retirement Party Ideas: How to Throw a Memorable Celebration

May 11, 2026 · Guides · 7 min read
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Bachelorette Party Planning Guide: Everything You Need to Know

May 8, 2026 · Guides · 8 min read
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Baby Shower Planning: Complete Guide

May 6, 2026 · Guides · 10 min read
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Graduation Party Ideas for Every Budget

May 4, 2026 · Guides · 8 min read
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Thank You Note After a Party: Templates for Every Event Type

Apr 29, 2026 · Guides · 13 min read
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Mother’s Day Celebration Ideas: How to Make Her Day Unforgettable

Apr 27, 2026 · Guides · 9 min read
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Dinner Party Hosting: A Complete Guide to a Night They’ll Remember

Apr 24, 2026 · Guides · 11 min read
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Engagement Party Planning Guide: How to Celebrate the Couple

Apr 22, 2026 · Guides · 12 min read
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How to Host a Backyard Party: The Complete Guide

Apr 20, 2026 · Guides · 17 min read
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Cinco de Mayo Party Planning Guide: Food, Drinks, and Ideas

Apr 17, 2026 · Guides · 10 min read
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How to Plan a Surprise Party (Without Ruining the Surprise)

Apr 15, 2026 · Guides · 16 min read
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Bridal Shower Planning Guide: Everything You Need to Know

Apr 13, 2026 · Guides · 11 min read
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The Power of Recurring Events: Why Hosting Once Isn’t Enough

Apr 10, 2026 · Guides · 8 min read
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How to Be a Good Party Host: 12 Tips That Actually Work

Apr 8, 2026 · Guides · 12 min read
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Graduation Party Planning: Start Now (The Complete Guide)

Apr 6, 2026 · Guides · 10 min read
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Easter Brunch Hosting Guide: A Stress-Free Celebration

Apr 3, 2026 · Guides · 8 min read
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How to Organize a Potluck: Step-by-Step Guide

Apr 1, 2026 · Guides · 15 min read
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Cocktail Party Ideas for Every Budget

Mar 27, 2026 · Guides · 8 min read
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How to Manage Your Guest List Like a Pro

Mar 25, 2026 · Guides · 8 min read
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Housewarming Party Ideas: How to Celebrate Your New Place

Mar 23, 2026 · Guides · 11 min read
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Spring Party Ideas to Shake Off Winter: 12 Gatherings Worth Hosting

Mar 20, 2026 · Guides · 8 min read
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Evite vs Luma: Which Event Platform Is Right for You?

Mar 18, 2026 · Comparisons · 8 min read
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Evite vs Punchbowl: Honest Comparison for 2026

Mar 16, 2026 · Comparisons · 9 min read
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Evite vs Partiful: Which Event Platform Should You Use in 2026?

Mar 13, 2026 · Comparisons · 10 min read
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Wedding RSVP Etiquette: The Complete Guide

Mar 11, 2026 · Guides · 14 min read
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Evite vs Paperless Post: Which Is Actually Better in 2026?

Mar 9, 2026 · Comparisons · 15 min read
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40th Birthday Party Planning Guide: Timeline, Checklist & Ideas

Mar 6, 2026 · Guides · 13 min read
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How to Plan a Party: The Complete Beginner’s Guide

Mar 5, 2026 · Guides · 13 min read
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Mixily vs Evite: Which Free Event Platform Is Better in 2026?

Mar 3, 2026 · Comparisons · 11 min read
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50 RSVP Response Examples for Every Situation

Mar 2, 2026 · Guides · 13 min read
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How to Host a Game Night Everyone Will Love

Feb 20, 2026 · Guides · 10 min read
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The Introvert’s Guide to Hosting a Party (Yes, You Can Do This)

Feb 19, 2026 · Guides · 9 min read
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St. Patrick’s Day Party Guide: How to Host a Celebration Everyone Will Remember

Feb 16, 2026 · Guides · 8 min read
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Birthday Party Planning: The Ultimate Guide

Feb 13, 2026 · Guides · 12 min read
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Building Community Through Regular Events

Feb 10, 2026 · Guides · 8 min read
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30+ Invitation Wording Examples You Can Copy for Any Event

Feb 9, 2026 · Guides · 9 min read
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How to Get People to Actually RSVP

Feb 4, 2026 · Guides · 8 min read
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How to Host Your First Event of the Year

Feb 4, 2026 · Guides · 9 min read
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Valentine’s Day Party Planning Guide

Feb 2, 2026 · Guides · 7 min read
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RSVP Etiquette: What Every Host and Guest Should Know

Jan 30, 2026 · Guides · 14 min read
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The Complete Guide to Online RSVPs

Jan 30, 2026 · Guides · 11 min read
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What’s New at Mixily: Feature Updates

Jan 28, 2026 · Updates · 5 min read
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Nick Gray Acquires Mixily

Jan 21, 2026 · Updates · 4 min read
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Mixily Plans & Pricing: Free, Lite, Pro, and Plus

Jan 21, 2026 · Updates · 4 min read
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Benefits of hosting events off of social media

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Best Books for Event Planners in 2026: 12 Essential Reads

Apr 21, 2021 · Guides · 9 min read
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Community Engagement Ideas: Activities That Actually Bring People Together

Mar 29, 2021 · Guides · 10 min read
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How To Ask Your Community For Help

Mar 9, 2021 · Guides · 8 min read
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Benefits of Hosting Hybrid Events: In-Person + Virtual

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Guide: How to create an event

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