The Mixily Blog · Issue №95

Hosting, seriously (and a little less seriously).

Tips, guides, and comparisons to help you plan better events — from RSVP etiquette to choosing the right invitation platform.

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How to Decline an Invitation Politely: 30 Scripts You Can Copy

How to Decline an Invitation Politely: 30 Scripts You Can Copy

Someone invited you to something. You don’t want to go, or you can’t go. And now you’re staring at your phone, typing and deleting, trying to figure out how to decline an invitation politely without sounding like a jerk. I host a lot of parties. I literally wrote a book about throwing them. So believe […]

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Birthday Invitation Wording: 40+ Examples You Can Copy
No. 02
Guides · Aug 7, 2026 · 14 min read

Birthday Invitation Wording: 40+ Examples You Can Copy

Good birthday invitation wording does three jobs. It tells people what’s happening, it makes the party sound fun, and it gets them to actually RSVP. That’s it. You don’t need to be a writer. You need a template you can copy, paste, and customize in two minutes. That’s this page: 40+ birthday invitation wording examples […]

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The 5 Best Evite Alternatives in 2026 (Free Options Ranked)
No. 03
Comparisons · Aug 5, 2026 · 11 min read

The 5 Best Evite Alternatives in 2026 (Free Options Ranked)

I sent myself a test Evite last month. When I opened my own invitation, the first thing I saw wasn’t my party details. It was a banner ad for a meal-kit delivery service. That’s the moment most people start searching for Evite alternatives. The good news: the options in 2026 are genuinely great. Some are […]

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Mixily vs Punchbowl: Honest Comparison for 2026
No. 04
Comparisons · Aug 3, 2026 · 11 min read

Mixily vs Punchbowl: Honest Comparison for 2026

Punchbowl used to be the free alternative to Evite. Not anymore. Punchbowl switched to a subscription model, and here’s the part that surprises people: some of the paid tiers still show ads to your guests. That changes this whole Mixily vs Punchbowl comparison. One platform charges $3.99 to $15.99 a month. The other has a […]

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Mixily Feature Updates — July 2026: Multi-Audience Reminders, Self-Serve Cancellation & More
No. 05
Updates · Jul 29, 2026 · 3 min read

Mixily Feature Updates — July 2026: Multi-Audience Reminders, Self-Serve Cancellation & More

July brought a handful of updates we think you’ll actually use: reminders that reach more than one guest group at once, cancelling your own subscription without emailing us, and a much clearer view of who actually got your messages. Here’s everything that shipped this month. Send Reminders to More Than One Guest Group at Once […]

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Mixily vs Paperless Post for Weddings: Which Is Actually Cheaper?
Comparisons · Jul 23, 2026

Mixily vs Paperless Post for Weddings: Which Is Actually Cheaper?

Paperless Post has the prettiest wedding invitations on the internet. It also has one of the most confusing pricing systems — a coin-based model that makes it genuinely hard to know what you’ll pay until you’re checking out. Mixily takes the opposite approach: a flat monthly subscription, free to start, and no coins to calculate. […]

8 Best Evite Alternatives for Weddings in 2026
Comparisons · Jul 21, 2026

8 Best Evite Alternatives for Weddings in 2026

Evite is fine for a lot of things. A wedding usually isn’t one of them. The free tier shows ads next to your ceremony details. The templates lean toward “generic party invite” rather than “this is the biggest day of our lives.” And if you want the ad-free version, Evite Premium runs up to $99.99 […]

Christmas in July Party Ideas: Themes, Games, Food & Invitation Wording
Guides · Jul 20, 2026

Christmas in July Party Ideas: Themes, Games, Food & Invitation Wording

Christmas in July party ideas sound like a joke until you actually throw one. I hosted my first one on a 94-degree Saturday in Arizona. I strung lights across the patio, put a plastic Christmas tree next to the cooler, and told guests to show up in the ugliest holiday sweater they owned. Half the […]

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Ice Cream Social Party Ideas

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Paperless Post Alternatives for Weddings (Ranked by What’s Actually Free)

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Backyard Movie Night: How to Host an Outdoor Film Party

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Mixily vs Partiful: Which Free Event Platform Wins in 2026?

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Is It Rude to Send Digital Wedding Invitations? An Honest Answer

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Summer Solstice & Midsummer Party Ideas

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How to Plan a Family Reunion

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Pride Month Celebration Ideas: How to Host & Show Up

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Mixily Feature Updates — Spring 2026: RSVP Deadlines, Smarter Reminders & More

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Bachelor Party Planning Guide

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Rehearsal Dinner Ideas, Etiquette & Planning

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How to Host a Garden Party

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Summer Party Ideas: 30 Ways to Celebrate the Season

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How to Plan a Summer Block Party Your Neighborhood Will Love

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50th Birthday Party Ideas Your Guest of Honor Will Love

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Outdoor Party Planning: The Complete Guide to Hosting Outside

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Pool Party Ideas: How to Host a Pool Party Everyone Talks About

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Memorial Day BBQ Planning Guide

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Kids Birthday Party Ideas by Age and Theme

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Baby Shower Planning: Complete Guide

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Graduation Party Ideas for Every Budget

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Thank You Note After a Party: Templates for Every Event Type

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Mother’s Day Celebration Ideas: How to Make Her Day Unforgettable

Apr 27, 2026 · Guides · 9 min read
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How to Host a Backyard Party: The Complete Guide

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Cinco de Mayo Party Planning Guide: Food, Drinks, and Ideas

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How to Plan a Surprise Party (Without Ruining the Surprise)

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Bridal Shower Planning Guide: Everything You Need to Know

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The Power of Recurring Events: Why Hosting Once Isn’t Enough

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How to Be a Good Party Host: 12 Tips That Actually Work

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Evite vs Punchbowl: Free Plans, Real Costs, and Which to Use (2026)

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Evite vs Paperless Post: Free Tiers, Real Prices, and Hidden Costs (2026)

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Mixily vs Evite: Which Free Event Platform Is Better in 2026?

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50 RSVP Response Examples You Can Copy and Paste

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How to Host a Game Night Everyone Will Love

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Birthday Party Planning: The Ultimate Guide

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Building Community Through Regular Events

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30+ Invitation Wording Examples You Can Copy for Any Event

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How to Get People to Actually RSVP

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How to Host Your First Event of the Year

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Valentine’s Day Party Planning Guide

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RSVP Etiquette: What Every Host and Guest Should Know

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